Ashram Life with Penny and Neil

"Perform every action with your heart fixed on the Supreme Lord. Renounce attachment to the fruits. Be even tempered in success and failure; for it is this evenness of temper which is meant by yoga."  Bhagavad Gita 

In 1976, Penny and Neil, Canadian members of our society, arrived in India to stay at the ashram with their beloved dog Dexter.  They were to take over from Swamiji, myself and Marg to administer the day-to-day running of the ashram and literacy program. 

They were eager to live a simpler life, free of materialism, to become self-sufficient on the land the way Indian farmers were and to give themselves over to a spiritual life.   Penny became accustomed to cooking Indian food.  Neil took up tending the land.  They grew banana, papaya and guava  trees, experimented with various crops, kept goats and cows for milk.  Alam, a young boy from Bihar who had come to the ashram to help me out in Swamiji’s time, stayed on as their trusted helper to do chores, care for the plants and animals.  He was young, honest, and enthusiastic.  Life seemed idyllic.  But Penny and Neil were to be severely tested.  Penny discovered a lump in her breast and underwent a radical mastectomy.  This saved her life  but the surgery on the lymph nodes left her arm impaired.  Still, when asked whether she wanted to return home, she said her life was in India and she would stay at the ashram.  She attributed her subsequent survival of breast cancer to the simple ashram life, meditation and prayer.  Though she had to wrestle with her faith, she came through the stronger for it.  

 She remained busy with the school, supporting Shakuntala, organizing outings for the children.  She named the literacy program Prodh Shiksha Kendra. She introduced a sewing program and donated sewing machines to girls graduating.  Despite, or perhaps partly as a result of her personal challenges, she had a full heart to give to the girl children's welfare.

As a couple, they weathered the storms of life,  with their trusty dog and Alam as helper, they ran the ashram for twelve years.  In 1989, they decided to retire to an even simpler life and give up the responsibilities for the ashram. No one could measure up to their energy, hard work and fierce dedication.  They were really irreplaceable.  As much as we all know that none of us is ever indispensable, we are each nevertheless unique.  Their time was over here and it was time to fill their shoes.